Spanking Dating Membership Plans

Spanking Dating has a pair of paid tiers, called VIP and VIP Plus, and each comes in five lengths. Every amount shown here is taken directly from our current plan list, in each currency we accept. The renewal rules are laid out in plain language, because nobody enjoys discovering a subscription term after the fact.

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VIP and VIP Plus

Each amount is the full charge for the length in its column, in the currency shown on that row.

VIP in every currency

VIP Plus in every currency

VIP Plus is not sold in Chilean pesos.

VIP is the core paid tier. It lifts the daily cap on messages so you can write to as many people as you like, unlocks advanced search filters (city, distance, experience level and what someone is open to), opens the members-only chat rooms, lets you start private group chats, lets you rewind profiles you passed on, shows you everyone who has liked you, and places your comments higher in feeds.

VIP Plus keeps every VIP tool and puts you in front of more eyes. Your messages and likes are placed first, your profile sits at the top of other people's daily match suggestions, and you get access to exclusive matches. Two extras, Boosted profile visibility and Super Match, are available to VIP Plus members as separate purchasable add-ons.

Some things do not depend on a tier at all. You can set up a profile, choose your role, write your limits and look around before choosing a plan. Optional ID Verification, which adds a Blue Tick badge after a government ID check, is open to everyone whichever tier they hold, or none.

Plan lengths

Both tiers offer the same five durations, the shortest lasting seven days and the longest a whole year. The right one depends on how you date rather than on any rule of thumb.

One week suits a focused look. You might be visiting a city for work, or you simply want to see whether there is anyone suitable within reach before thinking longer term.

One or three months suits an active search. A good spanking match usually involves several conversations, a phone or video call, and a public first meeting with no play planned. That sequence rarely fits inside a few days, and rushing it is how people end up disappointed.

Six or twelve months suits people who already know they want to stay. Ongoing dynamics and disciplinary arrangements between adults develop over months, and a longer plan means renewal dates are not on your mind while you get to know someone.

If you are unsure, think about the last time you dated seriously, whether through an app, friends or a local munch. How long did it take from first message to first meeting? Choose with that history in mind.

Renewal and cancelling

What happens at the end depends on the length you picked.

So the four shorter lengths carry on automatically, at an unchanged amount, until you cancel. Cancel before the renewal date if you want the plan to stop there. The twelve-month length behaves differently: once its year is up, the paid membership simply lapses, and starting another plan is entirely your call. The one exception is a twelve-month plan paid in Argentine pesos, which renews at the same amount.

A small habit saves surprises with any subscription: put a reminder in your own calendar two or three days ahead of the renewal date. That gives you time to decide calmly whether to continue.

Picking the tier that suits you

Start with what you plan to do in the next few weeks. If your aim is a handful of thoughtful conversations with people near you, the core tier may be all you want. If you expect to be searching widely, talking with several people and wanting the fullest set of tools while you do, look closely at the higher tier on the upgrade screen.

Whichever you pick, it is worth remembering that the tier is a private choice. Either way, nothing about your profile, your role or your limits changes with the tier. The person reading your profile sees the same honest description of who you are. A tier changes what you can do; it does not change who will like you.

Trust tools that sit outside any plan

Several trust options exist whatever you pay, and all of them are optional. ID Verification checks a government ID and adds a Blue Tick badge. Video Verification means a moderator sees you on camera in real time, with no paperwork involved. Admin Profile Validation is a manual review by our team that adds a validation badge.

No badge is compulsory, so plenty of genuine people will not have one. Treat a badge as one helpful signal, never as a guarantee, and keep using your own judgement: conversation first, then a call, then a public meeting.

Paying discreetly

Privacy matters in kink dating, and it reaches as far as your bank statement. A few habits help on any site:

• Pay with a card you are comfortable seeing on statements, and read those statements when they arrive.
• Keep a dedicated mailbox for dating, so receipts and notifications stay out of a shared inbox.
• Sign out on shared computers and phones, and avoid saving passwords in a browser that someone else uses.

Our article on dating privacy goes further on usernames, photos and personal details. Our page on trust and safety explains romance scams in particular. One rule covers most of them: nobody genuine on a dating site needs your card number, a bank transfer or a gift card, under any circumstances.

What actually gets you replies

It is tempting to think a higher tier will do the work. In practice, replies come from a profile that reads like a real person. State your role near the top. Describe the style of spanking you enjoy in your own words. List hard limits plainly. Say whether you want a single meet, a regular partner or a relationship. Add a photo that shows personality without giving away your identity.

Then write first messages that refer to something specific the other person wrote. That habit matters more than any membership level, and all it asks of you is attention. Our features overview describes profiles, search and messaging, and how it works walks through the route from sign-up to a first public meeting.

Questions people ask

What does VIP include?

Unrestricted messaging, advanced search filters, members-only chat rooms, private group chats, rewinding profiles you passed on, seeing everyone who likes you, and priority placement for your comments.

What does VIP Plus add?

Everything in VIP, plus priority placement for your messages and likes, first position in the suggestions others receive each day, and access to exclusive matches. Profile boosts and Super Match are optional add-ons on top.

Does my plan renew?

Anything shorter than a year renews by itself, for the same amount, unless you stop it first. The twelve-month length is the exception and lapses on its own, except when paid in Argentine pesos.

How do I cancel?

Stop a renewing plan any time before its next renewal date and no further charge follows. With the twelve-month length there is nothing to stop, because it was never set to continue, unless you paid in Argentine pesos; that plan renews, so stop it before its renewal date like any other.

Which currency are the prices in?

Prices are listed in 16 currencies, exactly as the tables show: US, Canadian, Australian and New Zealand dollars, pounds sterling, euros, and Argentine, Chilean, Colombian, Mexican and Uruguayan pesos, Brazilian reais, Costa Rican colones, Indian rupees, Peruvian soles and South African rand. VIP Plus is not sold in Chilean pesos.